Nerves, and Overcoming Them

I posted the following in the group's WhatsApp thread this morning.  It drew a hugely positive response.  Like 10 💖s.  I debated whether or not I should speak up and post something like this.  Guess it doesn't hurt to open up and be human once in a while!

There's a lot of nerves and fear in our world these days.  Some warranted, but a lot of it is in our minds.  "Predictive anxiety" as my therapist calls it.  We play a movie in our heads.  And we've been conditioned to play what's often a negative movie over the last few years.

Why not play a positive movie?  We only live once.  Why not enjoy the trip?  Look at the positive side, making new friends, discovering new experiences, seeing new places, tasting new foods.  There will be challenges...blisters, achy feet/knees, people you may not get along with, maybe your pack gets misplaced.  But somehow, some way, the Camino will provide.
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I see the feeling "nervous" a lot. I'll admit to being nervous, too, being a newbie here. How would I fit in? What about the fires? Would something come up to deny me the trip I'd worked so hard for?

But those nerves have dissipated over the last week after reading posts here. I see hope. Excitement. Camino spirit. A team coming together. Sky's idea of a prayer book is pure gold! 

I won't live in fear. Face my challenges head-on and beat them.

I'm not a musician, but a short chorus popped into my head last night.

"All it takes is love
All it takes is love
All it takes is trust 
And a little Camino love."

Don't know about you, but I'm excited to get going! Almost there!



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